Q:how would someone like me (18 year old girl from London) go about getting into this industry?
I am assuming that by ‘this industry’ you mean becoming a sugar baby. The Internet really is your best friend, as you can research everything you need to know and there are plenty of SB/SD websites that you can join free of charge (e.g. seeking arrangement, sugar daddie, what’s your price).
If you are interested in getting a sugar daddy, then I suggest you start by making a profile and taking some killer pictures. There are some girls that like to ‘freestyle’ by getting dressed up and going to expensive hotel bars in the hope of attracting a wealthy gentleman. Also, have a look at my tips page if you haven’t already as you may find some of it useful.
Q:Hi! I'm an escort and former sugarbaby and I just wanted to tell you how much I've enjoyed reading your blog. Keep it up :) xx
Thank you, I’m glad you’ve enjoyed reading my blog :). X
I’ve been thinking about getting false lashes down at the salon. How much are you gals paying on average to get semi permanent lashes & what’s your secret on keeping up the maintenance ?
I pay about £19 to get eyelash clusters put in, which usually last 3 weeks. In regards to maintaining them the less you touch them, the longer they will stay in. Try not to use any oil-based make up remover and if you want them to be taken out you will need to get it done professionally. I have found that they do sometimes take out a few of my natural lashes, so I like to give myself a break of about a month in between trips to the salon.
Cheating is NOT a mistake.
If you’re truly in love with someone, you will not be able to kiss someone else without tasting your loved ones tears stain your lips. You will not be able to take your clothes off for someone else without feeling like a field ripped bare to its soil. Cheating is a choice, its a choice you made because you obviously didn’t give a single fuck about your relationship.
I disagree somewhat. On the one hand I understand that if a person does cheat, then they obviously are not happy in their relationship and are not getting what they need. However, I think cheating is wrong/a mistake because a person should have the decency and the compassion to be honest and end their current relationship before getting involved with somebody else.
Story of my Life
The moment when you get into an elevator, the gentleman asks you what floor and when you say the top one you see his wife’s eyebrows shoot up.
Mr Millionaire and I had another amazing evening together! He booked us a split-level suite at the Crowne Plaza in Kensington on Wednesday evening, which I absolutely loved. Mr Millionaire wasn’t planning on arriving until later in the evening, so I went over a few hours early to relax and enjoy having the suite to myself for awhile. Did I mention how much I adore being a sugar baby?
When my SD arrived I was already dressed up and Mr Millionaire thought that I looked stunning. The outfit certainly caught his eye, as I was wearing a little black off the shoulder body-con dress with some red Chanel lipstick and I got a matching manicure. It was only about ten days since we last saw each other, but it definitely felt like longer and we both missed one another. For dinner I chose a restaurant called Launceston Place, which was a favourite of Princess Diana’s. Mr Millionaire commented that we were very conservative with our wine, as we only had one glass each. I’m not a particularly heavy drinker, but on our last date we woke up a lot worse for wear.
Afterwards we walked back to the hotel hand in hand and when we got back to our suite we could not get enough of each other. I think we consummated every room in the suite! Also, am I the only woman who gets a power rush from having a millionaire that loves going down on you for twenty minutes at a time? Not to mention that Mr Millionaire has got serious skills and I had never experienced a multiple orgasm before I met him.
In the morning I gave him a nice back massage in the shower and he told me that he doesn’t usually connect with someone so quickly. He actually wondered out loud what it is that I could possibly see in him, but I told him that I felt very privileged to be in his company. Also, he loves the fact that I feel confident and comfortable enough with him to walk around naked (men love confidence, but also humility). So Mr Millionaire is away on business for the next month, but he sent me a message telling me that he loved spending time together and is looking forward to seeing me again soon :).
PS. I miss our superior suite already!
I just remembered I looked at this website a few year ago & it was like a sugar daddy sugar baby thing I really wanted to go to Europe to visit my family but I don’t have money & I considered it lolololol except they want a pretty girl to travel with & sex too bad I have self respect & won’t prostitute myself out to old men like some girls
Yes, being a sugar baby is considered sex work by some people. However, this does not mean that SB’s or sex workers have no self-respect.
I have a lot of self-esteem (shocking, I know), high morals and plenty of respect for myself. If I genuinely thought that there was anything wrong with being a sugar baby, then I would not have seriously considered it to begin with. I value myself enough to know that I deserve a gentleman, who will treat me like a lady and support me whether it be financially or with my future career. I think that this is a far better situation compared to dating immature boys, who have no manners or respect for a woman and can do nothing for me in any way. You are entitled to your opinion of course, but it doesn’t mean that you are better than me.
Q:Hi, I haven't been getting much messages on SA. I feel like I am not pretty enough to attract men. What you suggest?
I don’t think that being a sugar baby is for everyone, but you don’t need to be a Miss World to attract a sugar daddy. Don’t be disheartened just because one website hasn’t worked for you, as there are many other SB/SD sites or you could try free styling.
If you haven’t got many responses it is easy to start blaming yourself by thinking that you aren’t intelligent or pretty enough. The truth is that we all have our insecurities, but try to focus on the positive aspects about yourself (it takes practice). Men love a woman with confidence, so if you can’t make it then fake it!
I would suggest that you take a look at my tips page, as I have some useful pointers about writing a profile and what pictures to include. Try using other SB/SD sites, re-write your profile and take some gorgeous new pictures.
I have a POT offering me 3k monthly, which he mentioned is what he gave his last sb. He says he wired it to her account, although I’m wondering why that didn’t raise any eyebrows? Does anyone know the specifics with UK banking, is there an amount you have to hit before they start to become suspicious? Would it be less risky using pp? I’d really love some advice!
I’ve heard that if it is £10,000 or more then it will be flagged. However, you could always get your SD to deposit it into your PayPal account, and then you could gradually put it into your current account at the bank.
Q:I have been talking to a POT who's really rich omg, he started talking about allowance and he said 5k a month. I think I won at life, I was expecting 2k the maximum
Well done! Remember to keep him on his toes and always wanting more.
Q:Is it bad to ask for some sort of money upfront like before you meet? Have you done this and what are your thoughts
Personally I think that it is okay to ask for the gentleman to cover any travel costs, or to ask for a small gift to show that he is serious about an arrangement. I haven’t actually asked for financial compensation before meeting someone, but most of the time they have covered any additional costs.
Q:Hello, I agreed to go on a date with a POT but I am nervous. I just started into the sugaring world and this is my first date. We have been texting and he seems nice but you never know. What are some tips/ advice?
It’s completely normal to feel nervous before your first ever POT date and I am sure that everything will go smoothly. Have a look at my FAQ and tips page, as I have had some similar questions and you might find it useful. Firstly, choose an outfit that makes you feel confident and highlights your best assets. Remember that most wealthy men pay attention to the details, so make sure that your makeup and nails are perfect. Also, a smile goes a long way and show some keen interest in him by asking questions about his work and hobbies. Lastly, your safety should always be your top priority so agree to meet him in a public place and don’t go anywhere private with him.
Q:So I've been looking on tumblr at the tags and I've always been curious to this whole sugar daddy sugar baby relationship but I'm from the UK and then I found you and took your advice made my accounts. Had a POT we agreed to £2000 monthly allowance seeing each other like three times a month! So thank you! Your blog really helped me. You're my sugar baby idol lmao xxxxxxxxx
Well done, the £2000 monthly allowance is great! I’m so flattered that you think of me as your SB idol, especially as I haven’t even been in the sugar bowl a year yet. I’m glad that you found my posts helpful. Happy hustling!